Monday, January 6, 2020

20 for 20


Inspiration comes in many ways. Some would ask why are you looking for inspiration? Why can’t you just live? Do you really need a list? The short answer is yes, I need a list and if I want to live my best life, I need to be inspired.  

Let’s face it January is when we get serious about resolutions. We clean up our act or at least make a list of desires for a good outcome this year. I think it’s safe to say most people don’t stick to their resolutions. That doesn't stop people from declaring a plan for the upcoming year.
It is popular to find a word or a phrase of the year. I like this idea, something that can guide you or pull you back on course as you get further away from your goals or from what you want your life to look like. 

I typically feel compelled to come up with some ideas at the beginning of the year that I intend to follow. A guideline to a successful year, or my intentions. I may just be trying to avoid the term resolution.  This year I will choose joyful, that may have been last years word, but then again the word might have been focus, we all know how that went. I love the word joy and joyful feels like it is doable. If allowed a secondary word, I am going with determined. I am determined to be joyful.

I follow many podcasts, one of my favorites is Happier with Gretchen Rubin. You may be familiar with her Four Tendencies or the Happiness project. The Happier podcast with her sister includes a yearly plan of intentions,  18 for 18, 19 for 19, etc. I like the different ideas they come up with all intended to make them happier throughout the year. They review them at the end of the year, honestly reporting how they did with their list. 

I find that when I try to live with intention, I do the things that I really want to do, the things I maybe should be doing (cleaning out the storage room) get left behind. There is joy in a neat and organized storage room, but the task seems daunting. I have two options, two days of taking everything out, throwing, giving away and reorganizing the things I need to keep. Or muddle through another year of trying to get organized. I have not decided on which method will fall into my joyful year but organizing the storage room is back on my list.

The entire 20 for 20 list is set. There are some lofty intentions, but I am ready for the challenge.  I am sure there are a few things that will remain on the list undone. That’s fine, it doesn’t have to be 100%. I will give it my best effort.

I hope to find joy by sticking to my plan. The clean closet, the writing I will get done. The simple pleasures are just what make up the moments of life.  At the end of 2020, I hope I can reflect back and be pleased with my progress. Excited about living for the day, using the list as a guideline but removing the stress of feeling like things are not completed. I am ready to dive in for a joyful year. January will be the reset. Let’s do this. Happy 2020!

For more on the 20 for 20 listen to the Podcast Unpredictable, you can find it on ITunes, Stitcher and SoundCloud.

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